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Volume XII No. 6 April
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Bad News:
Kansas Voters Approve
Ban on Gay Unions 70 - 29% Eighteenth State To Approve
Constitutional Ban
Topeka - Kansans overwhelmingly voted to add a ban on gay
marriage and civil unions to their state constitution, but supporters
and opponents predicted court battles over the amendment. The ban
reaffirms the state’s long-standing policy of recognizing only
marriages between one man and one woman. It also declares that only
such unions are entitled to the “rights and incidents’’ of marriage,
prohibiting the state from authorizing civil unions for gay couples.
With final, unofficial results from 104 of the state’s 105
counties on April 5, 414,235, or 70%, voted “yes,’’ and 178,167, or 29%
voted “no.’’ Critics argued the amendment could have unexpected
consequences, such as potentially preventing companies from offering
health benefits to employees’ partners - gay or heterosexual.
Matt Foreman, executive director of the National Gay and Lesbian
Task Force, predicted the amendment will spawn lawsuits in Kansas
courts as gays, lesbians and unmarried heterosexuals encounter
problems. “Does this impact living wills?’’ he asked. “Powers of
attorney? Custody agreements? The enforcement of custody agreements?’’
Voters in 13 states, including Missouri and Oklahoma, approved
constitutional gay marriage bans last year, joining four others.
Similar proposals will be on the ballot next year in Alabama, South
Dakota and Tennessee.
Some Kansas voters, like 24-year-old Eric Hetzel, saw the
amendment as a way to protect the traditional definition of marriage,
enshrined in Kansas law since 1867, from legal challenges. “I am a
Christian,’’ Hetzel said. “I believe in the Bible and what it says that
marriage is between a man and a woman.’’
But Byron Defreese, a 65-year-old retiree, called the amendment
“total foolishness.’’ “I don’t know how this is going to defend my
marriage of 43 years,’’ he said. “I think it’s a diversion from the
real issues.’’
Good News:
Connecticut Senate
Approves Civil Unions Bill
Civil Unions Bill May Be on
Governor’s Desk By April 13
Hartford - The state Senate here easily approved a bill that
would make Connecticut the first state to recognize civil unions
between same-sex couples without being pressured by the courts.
Senators debated for nearly four hours April 6 before voting
27-9 for the landmark bill, which would give gay and lesbian couples
many of the same rights as married couples. Vermont has approved civil
unions and Massachusetts has gay marriage, but the changes came only
after lawsuits were brought by same-sex couples.
“We stand today before a portal to history,” said Democratic
Senator. Andrew McDonald, one of a handful of openly gay lawmakers. “I
ask you to pass through it.”
Proponents say the legislation will likely clear the state
House, possibly as early as next week. Republican Governor M. Jodi Rell
has not taken a stand on the bill but has said she supports the concept
of civil unions.
A poll released April 7 found that Connecticut voters back civil
unions but not gay marriage. Civil unions were supported by 56% of
registered voters, while 53% opposed marriage for same-sex couples,
according to the Quinnipiac University survey. The telephone poll of
1,541 registered voters was taken from March 28 to April 4 and had an
error margin of 3 percentage points.
Brian Brown, executive director of the Family Institute of Connecticut,
had maintained that most voters do not support civil unions or same-sex
marriage, and he called the vote “a slap in the face of democracy.” But
Anne Stanback, president of Love Makes a Family and an advocate for
same-sex marriage, said she was “very proud to live in Connecticut
today.”
Gay rights proponents originally hoped to pass a bill similar to
the Massachusetts law that allows same-sex couples to marry. But
legislative leaders decided there was more political support for
Vermont-style civil unions, which extend state-mandated rights and
privileges of marriage, but without the marriage license.
Six of the Senate’s 12 Republicans and 21 of the 24 Democrats
voted for the bill. Six Republicans and three Democrats voted against
it. An effort failed to amend the bill to define marriage as being
between one man and one woman. Rell said she would prefer the marriage
definition was in the legislation, but would not say she would veto the
bill if it weren’t.
The 2000 Census found 7,400 same-sex couples in Connecticut.
About 70 people watched the debate from the Senate galleries.
The crowd ranged from same-sex couples to monks who opposed the
legislation.
State Senator. John Kissel, ranking Republican on the Judiciary
Committee, who voted against the legislation, said experience shows
that civil unions will just be a temporary answer and advocates will
continue to press for gay marriage. “It’s hard to believe that the
train, as it rolls down the tracks, is going to stop at this station,”
Kissel said. “Going down this road has a price to it.”
Door County
Hate Crime
Trial Set For April 26 Alleged Bashers To Plead
“Self Defense”
Sturgeon Bay – Two
of the five men involved in the June, 2004 bar brawl that was allegedly
prompted by sexual orientation of openly gay guest house owners Darrin
Day and Bryon Groeschl will go to trial April 26 following proceedings
here April 4. Father and son Mark Sawyer and Joshua Sawyer, both of Egg
Harbor, are charged with substantial battery and disorderly conduct.
The younger Sawyer, the alleged instigator of the fight, is also
charged with the hate crime penalty enhancer.
According to the criminal complaint, the younger Sawyer
triggered the June 6 brawl at Bley’s Tavern in West Jacksonport after
he unplugged the tavern’s juke box because he didn’t like a song Day
and Groeschl had selected. Sawyer then reportedly kicked one of the
victim’s pool cues. After the victims asked what the problem was,
the assault began. Throughout the brawl, the five alleged
assailants made repeated anti-gay taunts to the victims, which
triggered the hate crime enhancer. Groeschl later told investigators
that he briefly lost consciousness, which also triggered the
substantial battery charge.
Sawyer’s attorney tried to have Judge Peter Diltz drop the
substantial battery felony because the statute’s “temporary loss of
consciousness” language was unconstitutionally vague. Diltz denied the
motion based on a legal opinion he had solicited from the state
attorney general’s office.
Diltz then set the April 26 trial date, with jury selection to
occur a day earlier. Diltz ordered a jury pool of 60 potential jurors,
in part due to the notoriety the case has received in the county.
Internet discussion groups operated by Door County newspapers have
bristled with commentary on the incident since the brawl, and one
county writer even a discussion thread on Madison alternative paper
Isthmus’s discussion boards after a local radio station’s discussion
board was shut down.
Diltz also ruled that the younger Sawyer’s medical records might
be allowed as evidence with limitations. In previous hearings
Sawyer’s attorneys have attempted to have the charges dropped because
Sawyer’s injuries document that was acting in self defense in the 5-2
fight that he is charged with starting. A Door County Advocate report
indicated the defense would again use the self-defense strategy in the
formal jury trial.
The younger Sawyer faces up to eleven and a half years in prison
and $35,000 in fines if he is convicted of all charges. His father
faces four and a half years in prison and fines of up to $21,000.
Attorneys for Robert Wagner of Egg Harbor reportedly are
negotiating a a plea deal that will drop the hate crime charges in
exchange for a guilty plea. In another recent plea deal, Adam Bley, 24,
of Sturgeon Bay pleaded guilty to lesser charges in the bar
brawl Bley pleaded guilty to a charge of disorderly conduct March
24 and was fined $367.
Andrew Ostrand also had pleaded guilty last December 20 to
disorderly conduct and battery charges in exchange for the dropping of
the hate crime charge. Judge Peter Diltz, who replaced Judge D. Todd
Ehlers in the case, deferred acceptance of the guilty plea agreement
and until the trials of the other alleged assailants were completed.
Since his involvement in the June 6 incident at Bley’s Tavern in rural
Jacksonport, Ostrand has been charged with several other crimes
including disorderly conduct, criminal damage to property and reckless
driving. Earlier this month the Wisconsin Dept. of Revenue issued
several warrants against Ostrand for unpaid back taxes.
World & National News:
California: Court
Upholds California’s Gay Partnership Law An appeals court rejected on April 4 a
challenge to a California law that gives same-sex domestic partners
many of the same rights as married couples. The Alliance Defense Fund
and other conservative groups brought the suit, arguing that a state
measure on domestic partnership that became law in January was
unconstitutional.
Their argument centered on a proposition approved by California
voters in 2000 that defined marriage as a union between a man and a
woman. The Court of Appeal for the Third District in Sacramento backed
a superior court judge’s finding that the new law did not violate the
2000 Defense of Marriage Initiative.
“We conclude the trial judge was correct in ruling that the
legislature’s enactment of the domestic partners act did not constitute
an amendment of the Defense of Marriage Initiative and, thus, that the
legislature’s action without separate voter approval did not violate
... the California Constitution,” the court wrote. “Contrary to
petitioners’ suggestion, the legislature has not created a ‘marriage’
by another name or granted domestic partners a status equivalent to
married spouses.”
Although gay rights groups welcomed the California domestic
partnership law, they say it falls short of providing the same rights
as married couples, and are separately fighting for the right to
same-sex matrimony. San Francisco allowed more than 4,000 gay couples
to marry during a month-long period a year ago until the courts brought
them to a halt. The California Supreme Court ultimately ruled that
those marriages were invalid.
Yet last month a San Francisco judge issued a preliminary ruling
saying California’s ban on same sex marriage is unconstitutional.
Experts say years of legal battles over gay marriage and related issues
are likely.
California: Pink
Brick Tossed At Feinstein’s
“Gay Blame Game” Post-Election Jibes In Dianne Feinstein’s hometown of San Francisco, hard
feelings linger about the senator’s remark that the push to make
marriage legal for same-sex couples hurt Democrats in the November
election.
Organizers of the gay pride parade held in the city every June
announced Thursday that Feinstein was the winner of this year’s “Pink
Brick” award, a dubious honor bestowed on the public figure the
Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender Pride Committee decides has done
the most to damage the gay rights cause. President Bush and talk show
host Laura Schlessinger were the previous winners.
Joey Cain, president of the committee said Feinstein was
nominated for the prize for telling reporters the morning after Bush’s
re-election that progress on the gay marriage front “has been too much,
too fast, too soon.”
“There are a lot of people in the community who feel very
betrayed by her because they have supported her,” Cain said.
Howard Gantman, a Feinstein spokesman, called the senator’s
nomination for the Pink Brick “very unfortunate,” saying it neglects
Feinstein’s long record of support for gay and lesbian issues not only
as a senator, but as a former San Francisco supervisor and mayor during
the early days of the AIDS crisis. “It’s really too bad they haven’t
chosen, in terms of this effort, to really focus on people who have
been longtime opponents of the gay community,” Gantman said on April 7.
Feinstein’s competition for the prize, which is the gay
community’s answer to Hollywood’s “Golden Raspberry” awards honoring
the worst in film, was the Rev. Lou Sheldon, a vocal opponent of gay
rights, and the Traditional Values Coalition, the Orange County-based
organization Sheldon leads.
Geoffrey Kors, executive director of Equality California,
California’s largest gay rights lobbying group, noted that while there
were probably public figures more deserving of a Pink Brick than
Feinstein, her nomination and selection did not come out of nowhere.
Rather, Feinstein always has had a lukewarm and occasionally rocky
relationship with her gay and lesbian constituents, Kors said.
“She has a mixed reputation,” he said. “She has generally
supported basic nondiscrimination laws, but she vetoed the San
Francisco domestic partner legislation at the request of the
archbishop. ... I think people are frustrated by her lack of movement
over the last decade on these issues, for never making them a part of
her agenda.”
But James Hormel, a gay San Francisco philanthropist who served
as U.S. ambassador to Luxembourg in the Clinton administration, said he
doesn’t think the small number of people who cast votes in the Pink
Brick election “in any way represents the LGBT constituency in San
Francisco.” Feinstein has long been a champion of gay issues, as
evidenced by her appointment of gay and lesbian aides while she was
mayor and her vote as a senator against the federal Defense of Marriage
Act.
“I don’t really think this is in the realm of things a big
deal,” Hormel said. “On the other hand, I find it curious that this
constituency, which is struggling so hard to end its second-class
citizenship in this country, would turn on somebody who has in many
ways been a major supporter.”
The committee hasn’t decided what kind of project would
best-suit Feinstein’s brick, but Cain suggested that a place to start
would be for the senator to attend the parade on June 26. “We are going
to send an invitation to the senator to ride in the parade or speak
from the stage, something she has never done,” he said. “I’m hoping
(the brick) sends a message to the senator, and I want to see it create
more of a dialogue with her.”
New Hampshire: Bishop
Denies Saying Jesus Possibly Gay
The first openly gay Episcopal bishop says he is being falsely accused
of suggesting that Jesus might have been gay. “I can assure you with
absolute certainty that was not my implication, and certainly not
anything I ever said,” Bishop V. Gene Robinson told the New Hampshire
Union Leader.
Robinson said he is “being flooded with angry messages” because
of Web log comments about his comments at a February 13 forum on sexual
issues at Christ Church in Hamilton, Mass.
Robinson said he was making the point that the nuclear family is
a relatively new idea and that, even for his time, Jesus apparently led
a nontraditional life. “Interestingly enough, in this day of
traditional family values and so on,” Robinson says in a recording from
the forum on the church’s Web site, “this man that we follow ... was
single as far as we know; who traveled with a bunch of men, although
there were lots of women around; who had a disciple who was known as
‘the one whom Jesus loved’; who said ‘my family is not my mother and
father, my family are those who do the will of God’ - none of us like
those harsh words. That’s who Jesus is, that’s who he was, at least in
his earthly life.”
Pointing out that Jesus was not married with children “is a long
way from saying Jesus is gay, or saying that he had sex with anyone,
male or female,” Robinson said April 4. “I happen to think the
traditional family is a wonderful thing. I’m a product of it,” said at
the Hamilton forum. “I dearly love my family, and I love my own family,
with my own two kids. It just looks a little nontraditional. But this
Jesus, when you ask who is Jesus, he was not terribly mainstream, was
he?”
The Episcopal Church, with 2.4 million members, is the U.S.
branch of the 77 million-member Anglican Communion, which traces its
roots to the Church of England. The church has been roiled by
controversy since Robinson’s ordination in 2003.
New York: More
Suspected “HIV SuperBug” Cases Uncovered
Health officials have identified several patients potentially infected
with a rare strain of highly drug-resistant HIV, but are not sure if
the cases are related. The first case of the strain was reported last
month in a man who had unprotected sex with dozens of other men while
under the influence of crystal methamphetamine.
Officials then contacted sex partners identified by the infected
man, and began surveying city HIV laboratories for patients with
possibly related strains, The New York Times reported in its April 6
editions. City officials would not say how many patients had been
identified as possibly being infected with the strain, and said it
could take months to determine for sure whether their infections are
related to the first case.
“The extent to which this strain has spread remains under
investigation,” the city Department of Health and Mental Hygiene said
in a statement.
Washington DC: Study Suggests
HIV Overwhelms Immune System “Within Days”
Within days of infection, the AIDS virus destroys more than half of the
immune cells that might recognize and help fight it -- a finding that
may force a re-evaluation of how to tackle the deadly infection, two
teams of U.S. researchers reported March 28. Two separate studies in
monkeys showed that SIV, the monkey version of the human
immunodeficiency virus or HIV, attacks CD4 memory T-cells right away
and wipes out more than half of them.
“The findings may require a rethink of strategies to design HIV
drugs and vaccines,” Dr. Mario Roederer of the National Institute of
Allergy and Infectious Diseases and colleagues said in one of two
reports published in the journal Nature.
The findings will be difficult to replicate in people, because
most people do not know the moment they are infected with the AIDS
virus, which gradually destroys the immune system, leaving patients
vulnerable to numerous infections. But SIV is a good model and works in
a similar way.
Both teams worked with monkeys that they infected with SIV. They
watched what happened to their immune cells. Right away the virus
attacked the CD4 T-cells that had the correct configuration for the
virus. Normally during an infection such cells would recognize and
latch onto an invader, helping other components of the immune system
destroy it.
But HIV is different because it targets the immune system, and
the two studies show how quickly it makes it impossible for its victims
to launch a defense.Roederer’s team used new, sensitive tests to show
just how the virus moves so quickly.
“Specifically, 30% to 60% of CD4 memory T- cells throughout the
body are infected by SIV at the peak of infection, and most of these
infected cells disappear within four days,” they wrote. “Furthermore,
our data demonstrate that the depletion of memory CD4 T-cells occurs to
a similar extent in all tissues. As a consequence, over one-half of all
memory CD4 T-cells in SIV-infected macaques are destroyed directly by
viral infection during the acute phase -- an insult that certainly
heralds subsequent immunodeficiency.”
This means any attempt to vaccinate against HIV or to provide
efficient treatment must stop this process right away. Dr. Ashley Haase
of the University of Minnesota Medical School and colleagues made
similar findings. Not only does the virus directly kill the CD4 cells,
they found, but it also causes them to them to commit cell suicide.
There is no cure for HIV infection, which killed more than 3
million people globally last year and which infects 39 million people,
according to the United Nations. Drug cocktails can control the
infection but it comes back quickly if they are stopped. More than two
dozen vaccines are being tested, but experts do not expect any of them
to prevent HIV infection in substantial numbers of people.
Washington DC: Gay
Soldier Wants to Serve Openly
An Army sergeant who was wounded in Iraq wants a chance to remain in
the military as an openly gay soldier, a desire that’s bringing him
into conflict with the Pentagon’s “don’t ask, don’t tell” policy. Sgt.
Robert Stout, 23, says he has not encountered trouble from fellow
soldiers and would like to stay if not for the policy that permits gay
men and women to serve only if they keep their sexual orientation a
secret.
“I know a ton of gay men that would be more than willing to stay
in the Army if they could just be open,” Stout said in an interview
with The Associated Press reporter Malia Rulon. “But if we have to stay
here and hide our lives all the time, it’s just not worth it.”
Stout, of Utica, Ohio, was awarded the Purple Heart after a
grenade sent pieces of shrapnel into his arm, face and legs while he
was operating a machine gun on an armored Humvee last May. He is
believed to be the first gay soldier wounded in Iraq to publicly
discuss his sexuality, said Aaron Belkin, director of the Center for
the Study of Sexual Minorities in the Military at the University of
California-Santa Barbara.
“We can’t keep hiding the fact that there’s gay people in the
military and they aren’t causing any harm,” said Stout said.
Stout also said he is openly gay among most of his 26-member
platoon, which is part of the 9th Engineer Battalion based in
Schweinfurt, Germany. Stout, who served in Iraq for more than a year as
a combat engineer, said by acknowledging he is gay, he could be jailed
and probably will be discharged before his scheduled release date of
May 31.
“The old armchair thought that gay people destroy unit
camaraderie and cohesion is just wrong,” Stout said. “They said the
same things when they tried to integrate African-Americans and women
into the military.”
In an e-mail following the AP interview, Stout told Quest he had
been ordered not to speak to the media. “I guess they found out somehow
that I was talking to the press and now they are having a fit. I will
try to get everything straightened out,” Stout wrote.
Martha Rudd, a spokeswoman for the Army at the Pentagon, said
soldiers who are discharged under “don’t ask, don’t tell” typically
receive honorable discharges, although the timing would be up to the
individual’s commanding officer. She declined to comment to the
Associated Press about Stout, saying the Army doesn’t comment on
specific cases.
The issue of whether gays should be allowed to openly serve in
the military has received increased attention in recent months as the
Army has struggled to meet its recruiting goals. Twelve gays expelled
from the military sued the government in December, citing a Supreme
Court ruling that declared unconstitutional state laws against gay sex.
The Bush administration has asked a federal court to dismiss the
lawsuit.
Army Secretary Francis J. Harvey has said he opposes changing
the policy, although Pentagon figures show a sharp decline in the
number of U.S. military members discharged for making it known they are
gay, falling from 1,227 in 2001 to 653 last year.
A recent congressional study on the impact of “don’t ask, don’t
tell” said that hundreds of highly skilled troops, including many
translators, have left the armed forces because of the rule, at a cost
of nearly $200 million, mostly for recruiting and training replacements
for 9,500 troops discharged between 1994 and 2003. Gary Gates, a
statistician at the University of California at Los Angeles, estimates
there are about 65,000 gays and lesbians currently serving in the
military, accounting for about 2.8 percent of all personnel. He
estimates that at least 25 gay soldiers have been killed in Iraq.
Stout said he suspected while in high school that he was gay but
didn’t acknowledge it until later. “Then I noticed that it wasn’t a
phase or anything. This is me,” Stout said. He enlisted in the Army
after graduating in 2000. “The ‘don’t ask, don’t tell’ policy, when it
first came out, was a good stepping stone, but it’s outlived its
usefulness,” Stout added. “We’ve progressed past it both as a military
and as a society.”
Recent media polls indicate some increased public acceptance for
allowing gays to serve openly in the military, with more than six in 10
Americans supporting the idea while about half supported it a decade
ago. An Annenberg poll taken last fall among members of the military
showed a majority opposed to such service, though half of junior
enlisted personnel said gays should be allowed to serve openly. State News: Green Bay: Mark
Madison Brings Home National “Mr. Gay” Title
Veteran entertainer Mark Madison has been crowned Mr. Gay Classique USA
2005. Madison claimed his title in Hickory, NC on March 27. Madison and
his partner of 16 years, Loretta LaMour, are long time pageant
contestants and promoters. Miss LaMour has won several state titles,
including the Bager State's "top tiara," Miss Gay Wisconsin
USofA. Madison is the owner of the Miss Gay Wisconsin United
States pageant, which held its first state pageant last December.
Madison's crown is believed to be the first gay national title
ever won by a Wisconsin contestant, whether male entertainer or female
illusionist. Green Bay's Jeff Jennings previousy placed as a finalist
in the Mr. Gay America contest several years ago, and a number of
female contestants have reached the final rounds of several national
pageants including the USofA, America and Contiental systems.
The eleven year old USA Unlimited pageant system recently
restarted the Mr. and Miss Gay Classique USA Contest. According to
pageant spokepersons, moving into its third year of successful
competition, the 2005 contest was a great success. The Mr. and Miss Gay
Classique USA contests are solely for males at least 35 years old and
each year this system grows by tremendous lengths. The 2005 National
Contests was held on Easter weekend March 25 - 27. Full information
about the USA Unlimited system is available online at:
www.mrgay-usa.com.
Fond Du Lac: School
Board Prohibits Students
From Participating in National Day of Silence
The Fond Du Lac school board has issued an advisory prohibiting
students at the city’s high school from participating the the GLSEN
National Day of Silence, scheduled to be held Wednesday, April
13. According to Barb Kostonis of the local diversity awareness
group Fond Du Lac: Moving Forward, any student who participates “in any
way, being silent, wearing a t-shirt, pin, etc. or handing out
any informational material is to be suspended.” Quest also has
learned that several of the students are planning to participate in the
Day of Silence knowing the risk.
“First, the Fond Du Lac school district has required that any
information on sexual orientation or sexual identity be removed from
the sex-ed curriculum,” a frustrated Kostonis told Quest. “Next, the
GSA chapter at the high school is under scrutiny and was featured in a
newspaper article when complaints were brought to the administration
for both the GSA and the Christian club. Now this!”
An April 1 Fond Du Lac Reporter story recounted the
repercussions following a student’s decision to say “God Bless America”
over the school loudspeaker after being instructed to refrain from
doing so. School administrators were criticized for telling the
student, Republican Club member Calvin Freiburger, to hold off on
making the statement until administrators could discuss it. Others
complained about the religious references in a public school setting.
The situation became so volatile that high school Principal Mary Fran
Merwin apologized at the March 28 School Board meeting after Republican
Club members verbally “attacked her.”
Moving Forward is currently planning a protest on Wednesday,
April 13 in front of the school. Kostonis has contacted the local press
and plans to contact other media sources as well as the Wisconsin
chapter of the ACLU.
“This lean to a new McCarthy era is not only maddening, but
frightening as well,” Kostonis said. “If this is what occurs before the
proposed anti-same sex marriage amendment is put before a vote, I can’t
imagine the aftermath if it is ratified.”
LaCrosse: GALAXY LGBT
Youth Group To Hold Annual Dance LaCrosse and Coulee region supporters of LGBT youth are
cordially invited to attend the Ninth Annual YWCA GALAXY Ball and
Awards Ceremony to be held Saturday, April 16, at the UW-La Crosse
Whitney Center (Badger Street between 14th and 15th Sts.).
The evening will begin with a silent auction at 6 PM. The
auction will run until 9. There will be an awards ceremony at 7 PM.
Dancing will begin at 8 PM and last until Midnight.
Tickets for youth and students are $5 each. Adults tickets are
$15. In addition to benefitting GALAXY, a portion of the proceeds
also goes to the 7 Rivers LGBT Resource Center. For more information
about the event, go to the 7 Rivers website at: www.7riverslgbt.org or
contact
Madison: Queers,
Christians Face Off On “The Politics of Queer Sex”
Why does the thought of two women having sex titillate heterosexual men
while the thought of two men together repulses them? What does
that say about the position of power and politics in our society and
who controls what lens we view the world with? Self-identified butch
lesbian feminist activist Dana Alder of University Health Services,
posed this question April 5 at an hour-long panel discussion entitled
“The Politics of Queer Sex”. About 60 people, mostly students attended
the event sponsored by the UW-Madison LGBT Campus Center.
In an effort to promote civil discussion about these and other
topics, forum facilitator Otten invited various student organizations,
the Family Research Institute of Wisconsin, the UW Roman Catholic
Foundation, Action Wisconsin and Outreach Inc. to participate.
Panelists included Mary Waitrovich, Action Wisconsin; Julaine Appling,
Family Research Institute; Laura Gutknect, Outreach, Inc.; Kristen
Bertling, Promoting Awareness and Victim Empowerment (PAVE); Melissa
Lo, Sex Out Loud; Dana Alder, University Health Services; Jessica
Brown, UW Department of Sociology; and Peter Weiss, UW Roman Catholic
Foundation.
The tone of the evening was very civil.
Audience members listened respectfully as many emotional issues were
discussed. Each of the panelists was asked to respond to three
questions: 1) Based on the organization(s) you work with, and/or the
communities you are a part of, what do you see as the most pressing
issues related to LGBT sexuality? 2) What are your organization’s
and/or community’s goals with respect to LGBT issues and people? 3)
What questions or topics would you want to pose to other panelists or
the audience to think about?
“The beauty of the counterculture in the sixties was that it
‘opened up a space’ for us to begin to discuss gender and sexuality,”
Brown said. “Are we as a country ready to extend such civil protection
to the LGBT community, as European countries are already doing?”
Alder pointed out that there is no one community for all of the
LGBT population. “We each have different economic backgrounds,
education, and interests,” she said. “However, the one thing we do have
in common is that we are labeled as sexual outlaws by the rest of
society.” Gutknect added that transgender individuals are known
in society as “throwaways.”
Gutknect pointed out that discrimination still exists for
transgender and transsexual individuals, who estimated two deaths occur
each month in Wisconsin. The state has not passed legislation to ban
hate crimes and discrimination against the transgender community.
“Homosexuality was removed from the Diagnostic and Statistical Manual
of Mental Disorders in 1973 but being transgender remains a
pathological condition,” Gutknect said.
“Everyone does not have equal access to health care, including
those who seek sex change operations,” Gutknect added, characterizing
recent legislation that would prevent Wisconsin from paying for one
prisoner’s request for a sex change operation as “a typical knee jerk
reaction.”
Alder affirmed that health care contains the same societal power
dynamic. “Lesbians are as invisible in the health care system as
women are invisible in society,” she said, claiming that doctors have
been known to walk out of the room when a patient reveals their sexual
preference and to send another physician in.
First responders in the Madison area are instructed on
domestic violence within the LGBT community, noted Gutknect.
However she added that victims of domestic violence may still fight
homophobia and not find the support they need, depending on the
individual shelter.
Enlightenment through education is what both Melissa Lo of Sex
Out Loud and Kristen Bertling of PAVE said they promote on
campus. “While Sex Out Loud offers equal entitlement to safer sex
and resources, PAVE educates that sexual assault can and does happen to
everyone,” Bertling said
Politically speaking, “Gay marriage is currently the most
visible face” in regard to gay and lesbian rights in the political
moment,” Waitrovich said. She recounted how the proposed constitutional
amendment to ban civil unions and domestic partnerships in Wisconsin
spurred her to become active in the LGBT community.
“I seek ‘equal protection under the law’ for my family,”
Waitrovich said of her six-year relationship with her same sex partner
and their 15-year-old daughter. “A married heterosexual
perpetrator of sex crimes has more legal rights than I do.”
Waitrovich noted civil marriage accords over 1400 rights to
traditional families, such as social security benefits for surviving
children and the right to make medical decisions for their
spouse.
Weiss and Appling both expressed their fears for traditional
marriage. “If we extend the rights of marriage to homosexuals and
lesbians, then group marriage will inevitably follow,” Appling said,
claiming that a group who espoused such beliefs already vacationed in
the Wisconsin Dells with their proposed plans. “Farmers with
their sheep may follow,” she added
Weiss also explained the Roman Catholic Church’s position on
homosexuality. “Although the Catholic Church recognizes that there may
be a genetic characteristic that predisposes people towards
homosexuality, the Church does not condone homosexual sex,” he said
The ultimate purpose of sex is procreation, according to Weiss
and Appling. As a married heterosexual, Weiss argued that he has
the “right to demand sex from his wife.”
Appling claimed that one of the repercussions of homosexual
unions in Massachusetts will be that schools may now have to teach
homosexual sex. “The goal of the Family Research Institute is to
help those who can come out of their lifestyle choice, “ she said
Appling also claimed to have statistics that show that the
average length for relationships among gay men is between 1 1/2 to 5
years. “However, they (also) have multiple sexual partners,” she
said. In addition, Appling does not think that she should be told that
she is hateful, bigoted, or homophobic merely because she believes that
that the gay life style is a choice.
Appling also claimed that gays and lesbians should not have
children. Children with same sex parents are equally well adjusted,
Brown countered. Neither the LGBT community nor their children
are more predisposed to suicide, although the rate of suicide among
youth is alarming Brown noted. “(As) we evolve towards greater
freedom and social justice, in 50 to 100 years, we will look back and
laugh when we question the idea of gay marriage,” she said. Story filed by Quest’s Madison reporter
Jamie L. Steckelberg.
Madison: “Adopt A
Block” Group To Oppose
Wisconsin’s Proposed Constitutional Civil Union Ban A Madison gay couple and their “sister in law” are taking
the fight against Wisconsin’s proposed constitutional amendment to ban
legal recognition of all unmarried couples regardless of sexual
orientation to the streets, one block at a time.
Bryan Ochalla, his partner David Schowengerdt and
self-identified sister-in-law Jan Schowengerdt have started the project
BlockOut Wisconsin, urging people opposed to the civil union ban to “be
outspoken” by adopting a city block in their neighborhood and talking
to all the voting age residents about the dangers of the amendment
bill. The group’s website, www.blockoutwisconsin.com, advises that it
wishes to serve an an adjunct to Action Wisconsin, the leading
statewide group working to stop the bill’s passage. The group’s website
also offers talking points, printable brochures and petition forms, and
a detailed explanation of the project. BlockOut Wisconsin
stresses that it is not in competition with AW, and its donation page
refers visitors to a way to financially support AW.
David Schowengerdt told Quest the idea for the project was born
from the frustrations over the eleven anti-gay statewide ballot
measures passing last November. A self-styled “statistics nerd,”
Schowengerdt quickly realized after looking at the voting patterns in
each state that the opposition to the bans came from larger areas where
citizens were familiar with gay people. “I then looked at my own life
and realized that I wasn’t as out as I thought I was,” Schowengerdt
said.
“I realized that I self-censor parts of my life from people I
know,” Schowengerdt continued. “Gay people in general do that a lot I
think.”
According to Schowengerdt, the BlockOut Wisconsin project allows people
to take action in “small chunks at their level of comfort.” By
selecting a small portion of their neighborhood those opposed to the
civil marriage ban can express their opinions on the issue to the
people they literally live the closest to.
“And hopefully there will be a snowball effect,” Schowengerdt
added. The project’s website encourages spreading the BlockOut
petitions to the neighbors, who then in turn can download, print out
and share the documents with others. “People then might host a party to
energize even more folks,” he added, noting that the website has a
party planning page.
“Bryan and David are doing exactly what we all need to do in the
next 20 months: talking to people one-on-one as to why the proposed
civil union ban goes to far and hurts real people,” Action Wisconsin
Communications Director Joshua Frekker said. “The Blockout Wisconsin
project is just one of many such grassroots projects that have sprung
up all over the state opposing the proposed constitutional ban. Action
Wisconsin will have similar outreach projects underway, but we’re
always happy to get all the help we can in this massive effort.”
Schowengerdt noted the site has been up less than two weeks, but
is starting to generate more hits as the word spreads. “We’ve got
people telling us they’re linking our site to theirs every day.”
Madison: Action Wisconsin
Unveils New Logo, Updated Website
March 30 marked the debut of Action Wisconsin’s new logo. The pale blue
design, with its silhouette of the state and a superimposed white equal
sign seem reminiscent of the national Human Rights Campaign to some.
That’s not entirely unintentional, according to Communications Director
Josh Frekker.
“There are a number of progressive and political action groups
in the state that use both the words ‘action’ and ‘Wisconsin,’” Frekker
said. “For those not familiar with our work, the equality symbol set us
apart and suggests our mission. For those already aware with the LGBT
community’s long struggle for equal rights, the logo reinforces with an
already familiar symbol.”
The logo debuts on the statewide LGBT civil rights
organization’s updated website, and will be utilized on updated printed
materials, brochures and stationery in the coming months.
Madison: Proud
Theatre’s Season Ending Special Set For May 5-7
Join the “R” Evolution! Proud Theater R Evolution, that is. A wonderful
evening of theater, music and dance written by and starring the
talented youth of Proud Theater -- Madison’s premier LGBT and LGBT
Allied youth theater troupe will be held May 5, 6, and 7 at the Drury
Theater at the Bartell Theater Complex, 113 E. Mifflin Street. Show
time is 7:30 PM. Tickets are $7. Middle and high school
students show their student IDs before April 15 to save $2 off regular
ticket prices. Tickets available through A Room of One’s Own, OutReach
and the Bartell Theater.
Call or email OutReach for more information at 608-255-8582 or
commrel@outreachinc.com. Proud Theater is a project of OutReach, Inc.,
sponsored by the New Harvest Foundation in association with Stage Q.
Milwaukee: 2005
PrideFest Website Debuts
The website for Wisconsin’s Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender (LGBT)
annual Pride festival has gotten a new look this year. The new site at
www.pridefest.com was recently launched and features information about
the many diverse entertainment options and activities at the festival.
“The new design is colorful and dynamic, just like the
festival,” PrideFest Task Force member Paul Williams said. The website
will become one of the main means of communication between the festival
and the community, so updates will be added regularly, according to
Williams.
The site received 50,000 hits in 2004 alone,
according to PrideFest Marketing Director Ted Eslinger. The new site
features the option of entering an e-mail address to receive periodic
festival updates. Additionally, the site provides greater exposure for
the festival’s sponsors.
PrideFest will be held June 11 - 12 at Milwaukee’s Summerfest
grounds. PrideFest offers a huge selection of food, attractions and
entertainment that are just as diverse as the community that attends
this quality event for all ages. All entertainment is included with a
general admission festival ticket that can be purchased each day for
only $10.
Milwaukee: Men’s
Voices Milwaukee Spring Concert
To “Journey Through a Man’s Life”
“It begins with a single note...” Men’s Voices Milwaukee will present
their Spring Concert at 8 PM Saturday, May 14, 2005 at the Helene
Zelazo Center for the Performing Arts, 2419 E. Kenwood Blvd., on the
University of Wisconsin-Milwaukee campus. This year’s theme is “A
Journey Through a Man’s Life.”Artistic Director John R. Francis will
conduct the 40 voice male chorus.
“This concert is not meant to follow any one person’s life, like
a biography,” Francis told Quest. “It reflects the path that many of us
continue to take, and how music has played a vital part in that
journey.”
Advance tickets are now on sale for $15 each. Group rates are
available. Tickets are available from MVM members and the Zelazo
Center Box Office. Major credit cards accepted at the box office. For
more information, call 414-229-4308.
Advertising is also available in the concert program. For more
information, contact Thom at 414-507-0545.
Men’s Voices Milwaukee (MVM) is a choral ensemble dedicated to
musical excellence by performing a broad range of men’s choral
music. Formed in June 2001 and originating with 30 singing
members, MVM continues to grow. Every member of MVM believes in
the most important element of the chorus - the music.
Milwaukee: PrideFest
Names RuPaul, Taylor Dayne As Headlinders
PrideFest 2005 will host one of the best Pride entertainment lineups in
its history, featuring Taylor Dayne, RuPaul, Jason Stuart, Sophie B.
Hawkins, Jade Esteban Estrada and Pamela Means among many other
performers. PrideFest will take place at Milwaukee’s Summerfest grounds
along the shores of Lake Michigan in downtown Milwaukee for its ninth
consecutive year on Saturday, June 11 and Sunday, June 12.
Saturday’s headlining entertainment will kick off at 7:00 PM.
with Jason Stuart, one of the country’s top openly gay actor/comics.
Jason has performed at the Montreal Comedy Festival, Town Hall on
Broadway and to 100,000 at the Millennium March. As an actor, he has
had a recurring role on My Wife & Kids starring Damon Wayans,
playing a gay family therapist. Jason has been seen all over TV on Fat
Actress, House, Strong Medicine, Providence, Will & Grace, The Drew
Carey Show and Charmed.
Taylor Dayne and her band will follow as a featured performer at
8:30 PM Highly supportive of the LGBT community, Taylor Dayne stands
out as one of music’s most dynamic artists. Her versatile and powerful
voice has gained recognition in multiple genres from pop, dance and
rock to adult contemporary. Taylor Dayne’s unique vocal style has
earned her 3 successful albums including the double platinum albums
Tell It To My Heart and Can’t Fight Fate as well as the gold Soul
Dancing. She has sold over 10 million records worldwide, driven by 10
Top Ten Billboard hits, including Tell It To My Heart, Prove Your Love,
I’ll Always Love You, Don’t Rush Me, With Every Beat of My Heart, I’ll
Be Your Shelter, Can’t Get Enough of Your Love, Send Me A Lover, I’ll
Wait, Planet Love, and the #1 smash Love Will Lead You Back. She has
sold-out 2 world tours and been honored with 3 Grammy nominations. As
an actress she has appeared in numerous film, TV and stage roles,
including the role of Princess Amneris in Elton John’s Aida on
Broadway. In addition to her chart-topping hits, Taylor will also
perform new material from her next album, due out later this year. Be
sure to catch the special, VH1 Remaking: Taylor Dayne, which will air
on April 21st.
RuPaul will close out the first day of PrideFest with an
extravagant performance at 11:00pm. RuPaul skyrocketed to international
fame with the release of the CD Supermodel of the World which was
followed by roles in several movies, The RuPaul Show on VH1, many high
profile endorsement deals (including a beauty contract with M*A*C
Cosmetics), a best-selling autobiography and world fund-raising for
people living with HIV/AIDS. This tour heralds the release of RuPaul’s
first CD in several years and Ru says, “In many ways I’m going back to
my roots. The CD RuPaul Red Hot has all the sassy elements and bumpin’
grooves that I’m known for, but it also provides a deeper look into my
world. I’m very excited about performing all of my music for the
children at PrideFest.”
Sunday’s headlining entertainment will open at 5:30 PM with
Wisconsin-raised, Out (spoken), biracial artist, Pamela Means, who is
known for her “kamikaze guitar style” and punchy provocative songs.
Means strays beyond the boundaries of the traditional singer-songwriter
genre by incorporating jazz, rock, and blues with an Afro-beat
backdrop, creating her own inimitable style and sound. She is winner of
the 2004 Outmusic Outstanding New Recording (Female) Award for her
self-produced album, Single Bullet Theory. Pamela Means was also named
Falcon Ridge Folk Festival’s #1 Most Wanted New Artist, as well as
Wisconsin’s Folk Artist of the Year, Female Vocalist of the Year, and
Best Acoustic Act.
Jade Esteban Estrada will follow at 7:00 PM with a dynamic,
heat-driven Latin pop set. NBC News calls him “America’s Prince of
Pride” and Out Magazine christened him “the first gay Latin star.” He’s
been gracing magazine covers and thrilling audiences in seven languages
and in 33 countries. The Los Angeles Times calls him “a master
entertainer.” After back-up dancing for Latin diva Charo, he appeared
on a plethora of TV shows like Sex and the City (HBO), The Graham
Norton Effect (Comedy Central) and his music can be heard on the Golden
Globe and Emmy award-winning police drama, The Shield on the FX Network.
Sophie B. Hawkins will close out the Sunday headliner
performances. Even with hits like Damn I Wish I Was Your Lover, As I
Lay Me Down, and Walkin’ In My Blue Jeans, it’s her explosive live
performances that have earned Sophie B. Hawkins legions of loyal fans
from coast to coast. In 1992 she emerged from a fierce bidding war with
a debut album, Tongues & Tails that quickly went gold, earned her a
Grammy nomination for Best New Artist, and fired a single, Damn I Wish
I Was Your Lover, into the Top Five. Another gold album, Whaler,
followed two years later, along with a single, As I Lay Me Down, that
would chart in Billboard for a record-breaking sixty-seven weeks. By
the time she got to Timbre in 1999, she had won universal respect for
her rare blend of multi-instrumental and vocal talent, songwriting
craftsmanship, and gutsy honesty. Now Hawkins is lost in the
Wilderness, her first independently recorded, conceived and released
album. The provocative singer/songwriter declares her freedom with,
paradoxically, the most accessible project of her career. Hawkins is
thrilled to perform at PrideFest in Milwaukee. Gay Pride events, she
says, are “the greatest thing in the world. Being gay is special.”
Other performers scheduled at the Miller Oasis for the June 11 -
12 festival are Mark Weigle, Wise Fools, Tret Fure, Kimi Hayes,
Pulsation, Second Union, Dropmore Scarlet, Rufus Soulful, Iridium, and
celebrity illusionists Devon Cass as Cher, Gary Dee as Joan Rivers, and
Jeff Murphy as Liza Minnelli, Bette Midler, and Barbra Streisand.
PrideFest offers a huge selection of food, attractions and
entertainment that are just as diverse as the community that attends
this quality event for all ages. All entertainment is included with a
general admission festival ticket that can be purchased each day for
only $10.
Milwaukee: SAGE Outing
Offers Deadly Theater
Seniors In A Gay Environment will hold a theater outing on Friday,
April 15. Attendees will seethe production of the comedy “Drop Dead.”
Show time is 7:30 PM. SAGE/Milwaukee members and friends will gather at
the Whitefish Bay High School to see this production. Tickets are $10.
For more information or to make your reservation call Raymond at
414-617-1152.
Milwaukee: Gay Arts
Center To Host Yoga Classes
The Milwaukee Gay Arts Center has announced that Ricky Heldt, a local
yoga and pilates instructor will offer hatha yoga and yogalates
beginning Monday, April 18, at the center, 703 S. 2nd St. The one-hour
classes will meet Mondays evenings for eight weeks. Yoga sessions will
begin at 6 PM and Yogalates will follow at 7:15 PM. Heldt is an
experienced instructor certified in both hatha yoga and Pilates and has
been teaching hatha yoga and Pilates for over four years. For more
information or to register, contact the center.
Milwaukee: Award
Nominees Sought For PrideFest Kudos
PrideFest presents awards each year to a number of individuals who have
demonstrated leadership, community service initiatives and notable
achievements. Pridefest welcomes nominations for several award
categories:
The Community Service Award is presented to individuals or
organizations that have demonstrated exemplary contributions of time to
the community and its members. Too often people who donate time and
energy to various organizations do not get the recognition they deserve
even though their contributions are priceless.
The Stonewall Award is presented to individuals or organizations
who have demonstrated the spirit of the Stonewall Riots by fighting to
bring about change for the benefit of others. Usually their fight
begins as a personal crusade against an injustice, but often leads to
far-reaching impacts for the good of our community as a whole.
The Lifetime Achievement Award is presented to one individual
who has demonstrated leadership and commitment to the LGBT community.
Individuals who receive this award have often been instrumental in
changing the course of the community’s history.
Award nominations are now open. Community members statewide are
invited to submit names and credentials of people they believe deserve
recognition by completing a nomination form. Forms are available for
download on the PrideFest website (www.pridefest.com). Nominations must
be received no later than April 15.
The PrideFest production team will review nominations and select
award recipients. The decisions are final. If you submit a nomination,
you may be contacted for further information. Nominees selected for the
awards will be contacted to confirm their willingness to accept the
award and their ability to be present during the awards ceremony.
Awards will be made at PrideFest on June 11-12.